Why do we care?

Please note this is not directed at anyone specific


Why do we care what others think? When it comes down to it, we all say we do not care what others think but lets face it! There is a part in everyone that cares somewhat what people think. I don't think lives should be lived this way and I wish there was a way to change that. I feel like a lot of us live our lives trying to be what others want us to be or trying to be the girl a certain guy wants you to be or a guy a girl wants us to be. Be honest, unless someone is going to like you for you they're not worth it right? Well here we go again as humans thinking that there are ways to change others, but unfortunately there are not.

You know that saying.... "There is someone out there for everyone" Well for the most part I believe that, but then again when I think I'm where i'm supposed to be but then realize i'm not getting anywhere in progressing with some things it just doesn't make sense, but such is life, nothing makes sense! And right now for some reason there are a lot of things not making sense.


Like for example.... Girls, what are we all so catty?! Another saying... "Can't we all just get along?" I have realized is almost impossible for girls. and just like caring what others think, there is a little bit or a lot of cattiness in some cases in every girl. It doesn't matter what age we are there will always be comparing of other females. And wondering why a guy chose this girl or why this girl did that to you. Again, these things we will never figure out. So maybe we should (or at least I should) try and be the bigger person and say you know what? Oh well if I kissed this guy and now she is, should we care? If it was meant to be it would have been right? Or if he's moved on like that obviously he's not what I'm looking for. (not really a situation I'm currently in, but just an example). Such is life, you will always have an ex and that ex will always have someone new. It sucks and it hurts, but you have to move on and not hold on to certain things, because when the right one does come along those things can ruin a good thing! We cannot hate others because of things that have happened/or not happened to us.


I realize that in a lot of my relationships I become "the good friend" with most guys..... now I know that can be a good thing and sometimes a compliment that I am easy going, easy to get along with but you know? being "the friend" can get REALLY old. But do you see me complaining all the time? Ya sometimes I do, but I really try not to it is one of those things.... there is no point.

Well once again... just random babble I don't know why it is so easy to type my thoughts out but when people ask me to talk about them I cannot. Oh well blogging definitely helps!

Once again, this blog is not directed at anyone specifically